FAQs

So what do you guys do?

We organise events for gay guys who live, work or are new in London and who want to get together with likeminded guys for friendship, socialising or dating. We host regular events, where you can network and make new friends and dates. Click on View Coming Events to see what we have lined up for the coming month!

What happens at a Speedating party?

On arrival our friendly hosts/ hosteses will greet you, give you a note card and a name badge. You can grab a drink at the bar and we will show you to your seat and explain how everything works. You can expect to have a series of around 20 three minute dates with other single guests. You can make notes on your card about every date. We will be stopping for breaks so you can have another drink and gather your thoughts and our hosts are on hand throughout the evening if you get stuck.
At the end of the dating, you decide who you would like to see again as a friend or date. You put ticks next to all the guys you want to see and hand in your form. We will email you the next day with your matches, ie other guys who also want to see you again. Simple! After that, it's up to you.
 

I'm not convinced. It sounds scary!

• After the first few minutes, any uneasy guests always realise what a fun night it is and wonder why they haven't tried before.
• This is a perfect way to meet plenty of new guys in one go without wasting a whole evening on an agonisingly bad date.
• The atmosphere is fun, friendly and chatty. Everyone is there to meet new people.
• We provide the best Gay Speed Dating in town because we have specialised in this area for over three years!
• You don't need to stress or do anything. We will be waiting for you with everything you need and show how the seating arangements work.
• 90% of our guests receive at least one match.
   

Any tips?

• Dress to impress: first impressions count.
• Be yourself. You are fabulous.
• Think of some interesting questions beforehand. It can be very repetitive to ask 30 people the same questions!
• Remember that even though there may be no inital sparks, a relationship could start off as a friendship, so use that option on your form.
• Body language is everything! Don't fold your arms or legs as it will create a barrier.
• No onions or garlic beforehand.
• Relax! Everyone at our events wants to make new friends. The atmostphere is friendly so dont worry about coming alone.
• Make sure you hand your sheet to our host when the event ends or you won’t be able to get any matches! 
   

I always had the impression Speed Dating was a bit desperate?

Not at all! Check the pics from our past events; our guests are young, fun guys who are taking a proactive approach to meeting new gay guys.

I like the idea but I'm too shy to come alone!

There is no need to be! Most of our guests come alone and you won't stay alone for long!You can also bring a friend if you don't want to come alone. Attending our events is a positive step toward making new friends and possibly meeting a partner. If you don't take a chance, you will never know...

 

What kind of guys will be there?

People like you! We welcome all backgrounds and believe that diversity makes things more interesting. You may meet someone you would not normally have the chance to. Our guests have included architects, ballet dancers and lawyers.

 

What's the age range of your events?

The average age range is around 25 to 45 but you are more than welcome if you fall outside of this.

Does it actualy work? Do guys meet and fall in love?

Yes! Over the past three years we have brought together hundreds of couples at our events! Hundreds of friendships have also started with us too.

How does the 'come with 2 friends and your place is free' offer work?

Simple. You will see there are different payment options on the paypal button dropdown menu, one of them will say 'bring X friends and your place is free'. Choose this option and you will be charged for two places instead of three.  All we need are are the names and emails of all the guests coming with you. 

What's the dresscode at your events?

Unless otherwise stated it's always smart/ casual. Many guys come straight from work so they are in suits while others may be in jeans etc.

Do you send out tickets for your events by post once I have paid online?

No, after paying online you will receive a confirmation email from us. This means we have received payment and we will have your name on the night. If you need any more info you can email or call us (details below).  We don't send out any tickets.

Do I have to book online? Can't I just turn up and pay on the door?

We need to know numbers in advance so we can arrange furniture and let the venue know how many guests to expect. Online payment also means the event will start on time and it's easier for you. Sometimes we will have a couple of unsold places which we sell on the door but this is not always the case and if someone gets there first and snaps up the last place then you'll miss out!

What are your Terms and Conditions?

Tickets are non refundable and non exchangeable. UrbanConnections do not process payments, please contact PayPal for any queries. In the unavoidable situation where we have to cancel an event we will refund you in full through your Paypal account. This may sometimes be necessary if we do not meet a minimum number of guests. We also reserve the right to change advertised venues before an event. Speed dating guests please note you must hand in your completed form to our host when the dating has finished. You will normally be given 15 minutes to do this. If you do not give in your form on the night you will not receive your matches.

What happens when I give you my email address?
 

We will never share your information with anyone. We will use your mail either to send you our monthly mail listing our latest events with any special offers we are running or to mail you your speed dating matches after an event. That's it. No junk. You can unsubscribe from our mailing list at any time.
 

 Phone us: 07952 152 118

info@urbanconnections.co.uk