So you met a great guy. You really like him and he says he likes you too. But, you have a niggling suspicion that he is only after one thing. How can you tell?
1) He only calls you late at night.
After a night out with his mates, he gets horny and calls you up. It's clear what's on his mind. During other times he doesn't pick up the phone when you call him.
2) You've never met his friends.
When you like someone, it's normal that you want your friends to meet them too. If he is keeping you away from certain events or outings, maybe he thinks you will cramp his style when he is cruising other guys.
3) You stay in instead of going out.
If you spend most of your time at his or your place (especially in the bedroom) as opposed to going out to restaurants, cinemas, parties etc, then he is probably not interested in dating you.
4) All talk and no action.
He says he likes you, he talks about moving in together, taking a holiday etc etc but he never does anything to back it up. You get the feeling that he's reading from a script.
5) Mention the 'r' word and he goes cold.
When you mention relationships, all of a sudden he has to make a phone call, leave the room or change the subject. If this topic is out of bounds for him, it means he's not interested in being with you!
6) What does your gut tell you?
No matter how dizzy in love you may be, listen to what your intuition is telling you; or even better listen to your good friends. What do they think?
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