Forget splashing out on new those designer jeans or the latest haircut in London's trendiest salon; simplify your dating life with these back-to-basic tips:
Find your man!
1) Be in the right place:
Make sure you hang around the places where the type of man you want to meet will be. If you are looking for someone sporty, then join a gym or, if you're ideal man loves art, see what events or exibitions you could attend.
2) Be Confident:
Confidence is attractive. If you don't feel confident, then fake it!
Confidence is attractive. If you don't feel confident, then fake it!
3) Smile!
Happy, cheerful people are attractive and we are all naturally drawn to them.
Happy, cheerful people are attractive and we are all naturally drawn to them.
4) You have nothing to lose:
If you feel you are receiving the right signals then jump and don't miss your chance. And if you're not his type, so what? Nobody has ever died from being rejected.
If you feel you are receiving the right signals then jump and don't miss your chance. And if you're not his type, so what? Nobody has ever died from being rejected.
5) Be yourself:
There is nobody else like you; you are unique! Don't try to be anything that you're not.
There is nobody else like you; you are unique! Don't try to be anything that you're not.
Boost your self-confidence:
1) Imitate confident people: Note how they have good posture, speak slowly and give eye contact. Try this yourself.
2) Look in the mirror: do you need an image change or maybe to lose some weight? Think how good that would feel and feeling good is attractive.
3) Cut some cords: don't spend time with negative people who criticise you or make you feel bad about yourself. Start to think positively about you and your life and it will transform.
4) Get into the habit of dating, especially if it's been a while. Force yourself to get out there, even for a quick coffee with someone.
5) You can change a lack of confidence in any area of your life; it's not genetic! If you lack self esteem re. your body; join a gym. If you lack skills, learn them. Problems from the past can be addressed with therapy.You are in control!
For more fantastic dating advice; check out our book 'Gay Dating. Your guide to finding Love'.
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